Hubert Alfonso Graham

Hubert Alfonso Graham, beloved father, son, brother, uncle, cousin, godfather and friend, passed away on May 20, 2024, at the age of 65. His untimely departure has left a void in the hearts of those who knew and loved him, but his memory will forever be cherished. Born to Panamanian parents, Roberto and Iris Graham, on September 14th, 1958, in Brooklyn, NY, Hubert, affectionately known as Hubie, was a beacon of joy, life, and laughter. He had a knack for making people laugh with his quirky jokes and playful antics, always knowing how to lift spirits and spread happiness. Hubert attended Winthrop JHS and Wingate HS before enlisting in the United States Air force where he served his country with honor and steadfast commitment. While in the Air Force he was at the forefront of learning what would become the information technology we use today and his path to a successful career in IT including many years at JP Morgan Chase on Wall Street. His education included 3 years of study at Polytechnic Institute of Technology at New York University. During the pandemic, he completed his coursework and received his Bachelor of Science in Business and Project Management, completing a goal started years before in pure Hubert fashion to “finish what you start.” His strong belief that all things are possible if you’re willing to work hard and smart enough to figure it out is the driving force for his many accomplishments. Despite his many achievements, he remained humble, dependable, always willing to help, willing to share information, and had the ability to make people feel special and valued. A natural mentor, he believed in the proverb, “Give a man a fish, and you feed him for a day; teach a man to fish, and you feed him for a lifetime.” His family and friends recall countless moments of his generosity and the genuine care he showed to everyone around him. His thoughtful gestures and warm presence will be deeply missed. Hubert was a man of many words and many actions! Hubert’s passion for life was evident in everything he did; he worked hard and played hard. He always had an idea or project to move himself forward in life. When he wasn’t studying or rehabbing his house, tinkering with his cars or motorcycle, he was looking for his next travel adventure. He loved to travel and visited many countries including, Mexico, Jamaica, Bermuda, Bahamas, Portugal, Thailand, Argentina, Paris, Italy, Germany, Belize, Turkey, Egypt, Amsterdam, Panama, where he had dual citizenship, and the Dominican Republic which was his second home. He was an athlete, and his love for all sports was obvious from childhood. He played football for his high school team, was an exceptional basketball player, and an avid skier with Thrillseekers Inc, a New York group with which he also biked, rollerbladed, and golfed. His most recent passions were salsa dancing and pickleball, both pastimes he participated in as much as possible. Hubert was always looking for something to fuel his competitive spirit and always had a willingness to work at being good at all the things he engaged in. When he wasn’t a participant, the lifelong New York Knicks fan enjoyed watching his favorite team play and could often be found cheering for them with the optimism only a Knick fan could have, always having commentary on the state of his beloved team. Hubert will be remembered as an intelligent, fun-loving, thoughtful, and dedicated man whose sense of humor and zest for life left an indelible mark on everyone he met. His spirit will live on in the hearts of those who knew him, and his legacy of love, laughter, and integrity will never be forgotten. Hubert will be dearly missed and forever loved. Hubert is survived by his loving son, Kenyon, his siblings, Norton, Emanuel, Yolanda, Gisele, and Donna, his ex-wives Lenore and Antonia, his cousins, many nieces and nephews, goddaughters, and a wide circle of extended family and friends. While we mourn the loss of a wonderful man, we also celebrate the incredible life he lived filled with laughter, love, and unwavering loyalty. A celebration of Hubie's life will be held on June 6, 2024, at noon at the St. John’s Family Funeral Home, where friends and family are invited to share memories and pay their respects. Those that are unable to attend may view the service using the following link: https://iframe.dacast.com/live/2a7a09ae1c0559a83ef537e05e6a14a6/2aae7d5f-98fd-a9e6-32a7-b774547cf42c

Hubert Alfonso Graham

September 14, 1958 - May 20, 2024